Lovense Flexer Review
Lovense toys have a lot of hype around them; and deservedly so. They have a wide range of innovative and fun toys, with the flexer being my favourite so far.
The Flexer is genuinely the best vibrating toy I’ve ever used. It’s an insertable, wearable vibrator with the most amazing ‘come hither’ motion. Every time I’ve worn it, I have had to really focus on maintaining composure because it’s just that powerful. It’s given me so many intense orgasms, and it has really changed the game for vibrators.
The pointed front sits right against your clitoris, providing powerful stimulation, even when it’s not on full power! It doesn’t feel uncomfortable, and I’ve never had to adjust it while wearing it - both walking around in public and laid in bed. The vibration can also be felt in the part of the flexer that goes inside you - and this combination provides a fantastically orgasmic experience. You really can just lie back and enjoy the vibrations, as it sits snugly inside you. The power in this part of the toy alone is enough of a selling point for me, so the next key part of the toy just makes it incredible.
The ‘come hither’ motion is what makes this toy so unique. The inner part of the toy moves forward and backwards, stroking up against the g-spot to create an orgasmic experience. It’s very powerful and creates a wonderful pressure, which is intensified when used in tandem with the vibrations, creating a special experience every time it’s used. While it doesn’t have the texture of real fingers, it feels very realistic - particularly due to the fact that you can easily change the speed, just like the real thing. It’s well positioned and doesn’t feel too tight or loose when wearing it.
As with all Lovense toys, it’s compatible with their app which makes it super easy to control, or gives you the opportunity to give control to somebody else. The latter function can work over the internet too, meaning you don’t have to be with someone for them to control the toy.
Using the app, you have multiple options - just the vibrations, just the flexer motion or both simultaneously. You can control the intensity of both via the app too, and create patterns (which I’ll talk about later). You can also use:
User created patterns: the app has a database of patterns created by other users. This makes it easy to just wear the toy and get on with your day, as you don’t need to be controlling it.
Speed mode: This makes car journeys so much fun. It uses the speed that you’re going at to change the speed of the vibrations - you can change the sensitivity too depending on what you’re craving.
Sound mode: I also love this, the more noise you make, the more intense the toy gets… which in turn makes you make more noise and so on… it’s super fun!
Music: This allows you to pair the app with songs and it moves the toy in time with whatever music you’re playing. It works with most music apps, with the exception of Spotify, which is a downside, but hopefully this will be reinstated by Spotify in the future.
As with all vibrating toys, particularly ones that you can wear in public, noise is a concern many people have. I find that I only notice the noise when I’m in my house. It’s unnoticeable indoors in public. I’ve used this in restaurants, supermarkets, cafés and on public transport and it’s been unnoticeable every time. It might sound loud at first - but it really isn’t when you get into a slightly noisier space. It’s super discreet, so as long as you can hide it on your face, nobody will suspect anything.
For me, this fits extremely well and doesn’t slip out while I’m walking. I have friends who have also used it and had no issues too; it seems like it fits a lot more people than toys like the dolce. It considers different types of vaginas, thanks to the pointed tip. While it’s important to note that not every toy will be a great fit depending on your body, I think the Flexer has been designed really well to accommodate as many people as possible.
All in all, I’d really recommend the flexer to anyone considering buying a similar toy. It’s a good price point and has so many fantastic features. It’s really well made and has a great battery life, which allows for lots of fun.
Price: It’s not the cheapest by far, but it does so much more than regular vibrators. 3.5/5 Design: In my opinion, it’s ergonomic and well thought out regarding on/off switch placement. 4/5 Ease of Use: Connect it to the app, and you’re off. Quick charging too. 5/5 Comfort: I’ve not had any comfort issues, but I know that this is different for everyone. 4.5/5
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